Frequently Asked Questions

Q: What does is cost to use this affair website?

Membership to Discreet Adultery is Free

As a free member you can:

Search for men and women to meet

Send and receive pics

Add members to you favorites

Reply to messages from other members

Receive winks

Becoming a Full Member allows you to:

Send custom mail messages

Invite users into a chat session

Send priority messages

Send virtual gifts

To upgrade to a Full Member:

Click on the "Buy Credits" button on the main console when you're logged in

Credits don't expire while your account is active

Q: What computer equipment do I need to access the website for this affair agency?

Discreet Adultery is currently designed for computer web browsers and smart phones with a full web browser.

Minimum computer requirements are:

Operating system: Windows 98 or higher, Mac OS 10.2 or higher, Linux kernel 2.0 or higher

Web browser: Internet Explorer 7 or higher, Firefox 3.0 or higher, Chrome 5.0 or higher, Safari 4.0 or higher, Netscape 6.0 or higher

Internet Access Speed: 28.8k dial-up minimum

Javascript must be enabled

Firewalls should be disabled

Pop up blockers should be disabled

Proxy servers should be disabled

Q: What is the female to male ratio on Discreet Adultery?

Currently the ratio is about seven men for every three women that join Discreet Adultery.

Q: What is the code of conduct for using this affair website?

As a general practice, we do not monitor private messages between users. However, we do have a zero tolerance policy for threats, insulting or inflamatory language, slurs against a specifc race, geneder or sexual orientation, or harassment of any kind.

This married dating service is for adults only. People under the age of 18 are prohibited from joining Discreet Adultery. We're glad you like older women or men, but please wait until you are at least 18 before you use our service to meet them.

Q: Are there real married women and men using the Discreet Adultery site?

We can't guarantee that any specific profile is authentic, we do work very hard to ensure that all members who sign up agree to the Terms and Conditions that specify our acceptable use policies.

Additionally, we review all items published to the public area of the website, including pics and text posts. We also use our best efforts to edit posted information that does not comply with our Terms and Conditions, or that we deem unacceptable in our own sole disccretion.

If you use credits to send a mail message to any member that becomes involuntarily suspended, we automatically refund those credits back to your account. That way, you can initiate contact with confidence.We openly disclose our Terms & Conditions, Privacy Policy and Disclaimer information at the bottom of EVERY page you view. This information clearly outlines how we collect your information and what we do with it, our code of conduct, etc.

Q: Is your affair website used only by married men and women, or are there Singles on Discreet Adultery?

Many single men and women join Discreet Adultery in order to meet married men or women for an affair. There are many singles that are looking for a relationship where they are the mistress or kept woman, or men who want to be a boy toy or the other man. We encourage single men and women to use Discreet Adultery, however our married members may worry that you have less to risk from a discreet affair. You may need to try a little harder, to get the confidence of the men or women you contact. We reccomend you keep trying, be honest about your situation, what you are looking for, and why.

Singles do have a lot of to offer in a relationship for someone who is married but looking. From a more flexible situation, more open living situation for encounters, and less hangups. Communicate the benefits of your situation.